Well, according to what my ped told me you're doing things just how you're supposed to. He said to start with rice cereal and the introduce colored veggies (carrots, sweet potato, etc) Then you move to green veggies (green beans, sweet peas) and then finally fruits. With the veggies I'm not real sure why colored before green???? I used to just get 1/2 the jar of 1st foods and whatever she didn't eat just throw away. They'll let you know when they're full. Also only introduce one new food every 3-4 days. That way if they break out in a rash or have some kind of allergic reaction you'll know what caused it. My dd is 7 mos and has been eating solids for a couple of months now and she eats about a jar of 2nd foods for lunch usually cereal with pears or bananas and then for dinner 1/2 jar of a meat and veggie dinner and 1/2 jar of fruit. She still takes about 4-5 bottles a day sometimes less and at least one juice bottle. The whole feeding schedule really depends on the baby, solids 2 times a day keeps her happy because she enjoys her bottle first thing in the morning. Hope this helps!!