weepyone

thanks for your replies i was not being hostile just i saw the thread and was shocked if my parents called me sexy i would think it wierd . no i never had any bad experiences i grew up in a loving home but was never called sexy, if my dad called me sexy i would think it stange. just because i think it weird that people call their children sexy does not mean i have had a bad experience, i could ask do those who call their baby sexy have they had bad experiences, i just presume this is not the case just that they want to use an adult term for a child. sexy is a sexual connotation in my book, perhaps strangely people use this word differently to me . i see adults everyday in my job who were abused as children if that matters. but i still think sexy is an inappropriate word to call a child itis a sexual reference. i don't really care what people call their children as long as no one calls my baby sexy - i think it is way wierd to call a child that just like i don't think children should be dressed in short skirts like adults, i think children lose their innocence way too early because adults treat them like adults as oppossed to children. words like pooppy are not sexual so i think that is the big difference. i want my ds to have a good self esteem and have a positive body image i just don't feel he needs to be sexualised as a child to get that. just my opinion thanks for sharing yoursoh and i asked this here because i wondered if people in the u.s called their children sexy because people are too liberal in the uk sometimes and i wondered if this sexy businesss was just done here but no people obviously do it there too, maybe i am old fashioned, i don't know

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