I am going through the same thing. My DD is 8 months old. She goes to day care 3 days per week and my daycare only feeds her cereal w/fruit or veggie for breakfast and then bottles of bm the rest of the day. I always give her dinner at night (which is 1/2 a jar of veggies and cereal). However, when I have her home w/me for the day, I do 3 meals. I feel that she likes 3 meals (and it gives us something to do)! However, my daycare is always talking about how their milk is so important. I think I will tell my daycare that I would like her to start feeding her lunch as well.
Anyone have any thoughts about solids? I tried little bits on bananas for my dd to feed herself and she did a little choke. I freaked out and haven't let her feed herself since.