Baby attached to Mom only - Help!!!
My DH and I have a 3 month old. My hubby has been right there from the start. Very loving, gentle and devoted. Our DS had no problem going with him in the beginning, but it seems like the past couple of months, he periodically cries (sometimes wails) at different times of the day or night when DH holds him, changes his diapers, swaddles him, feeds him, puts him down or gets him up from his nap, sometimes even just by him looking at him! He feels very hurt and rejected by this and it totally KILLS me to see him like that!!
We have been trying for 11 of the longest years of our life to have a baby and now to see our son act like this with his father is so devastating to the both of us! I know babies are attached to the mother, but my DH is getting so frustrated that he is wants to stay away so he doesn't get his heart broken by the baby's detachment. It is also becoming more and more difficult for me because DH sees how I can pretty much do anything with the baby and he is perfectly content as long as I'm there or he's in my arms.
Is there anything he or I can do to get baby to trust him more?