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Went to the dr yesterday and he wants my hubby to get his sperm checked. I asked him if his sperm is low what can they do about it. He told me that there are medicines that he can take and also surgery. I don't think my husband would go for surgery. He was already upset when i told him that the dr wanted him to get checked. He told me he didn't want to take medicine that had side effects. We have a soon to be 7 year old and my second baby died last year at birth. My first son we didn't even try. My second son we tried for 5 months and then i went on clomid and got pregnant. We have been trying since January and I've been on clomid for 3 months. I try to stay positive and say to myself that if God wants me to have another baby, he will let me get pregnant no matter what. My husband drives a truck but he his home everynight so we are bedding at the right time. He is getting ready to get off a truck next week. The dr said that with him being a truck driver and sitting all day that is why he wants to get his sperm checked. I'm just a little upset about this all. I feel like my hubby is giving me hard time about it. And how about if he does have a low sperm count and they want to do surgery. I know my hubby is not going to go for that, so then i guess that i want have anymore children. My hubby is just greatful that we have one child so he doesn't really bother him if we can't have anymore. I need everyones prayers and opinions to what to do. Should i leave this all alone and go on with our lives? I mean its all in God's hands anyway. I am just so tired of trying and getting so upset every month while others seem to try one month and get pregnant.