Well, I can't give you that much info except that I went through IVF and am now going through my 3rd try. If you want specifics, ask away! I have heard of women getting donated eggs. You'll have to check things out at your local RE's office. I'm not sure about the financial aspect of it however, especially if you're paying out of pocket.
But I also wanted to say that you sound like you've been through A LOT!! And that makes you an incredibly strong women! I wish you lots of luck and congratulations on your daughter (a true miracle) and your transplant (which I'm sure was tough to go through). Keep us posted, this is a great site with very supportive women.