My Dh and I have been struggling with whether or not to tell our child( once we concieve one) that he/she was concieved by donor sperm. Before we were allowed to go forward with our treatment we had to meet with a shrink and she had to approve us. During our meeting she stressed over and over again that we should tell the child. DH and I left there thinking ok, we will tell, then we thought about it more and decided not to. But the question still ways heavy on our minds so I did some research and found a article on [url]http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/903564[/url]. After ready this article DH and I thought that it would be the best thing for everyone involved to tell the truth. I know that there are a few of you on this board that are using Donor sperm that should read this article. I am not trying to tell anyone what to do, don't get me wrong, if you choose not to tell that is your decision but I thought that if there was anyone out there that was in limbo like we were then this might help.