Re: Wow Some people do care!
Tresh that is so lovely - you are completely right, some people really care and deal with this so kindly. I just wish they were in the majority! I have had friends scared to tell me so they text, or email, or let me find out from a third party and they have no idea how much we would like them to just tell us and understand that even though it is difficult at first, we can be really happy for them as well. As my sister always told me when dealing with IF, "I don't want their babies, I want my own! And there is not a finite supply, just because other people have more does not mean I get none". And she is right with two gorgeous ones of her own.
I am happy you have this lovely cousin to support and understand you.