Irish, I have no real advice to give, as I"m no expert in your situation, but my friend had multiple fibroids, inc. one in uterine wall. Sne's about 35 and she had a lap. to remove them, and they didn't remove all due to the damage it'd caused to uterus. She was in a whole lotta pain, before and after lap. poor love. However she fell pregnant about 5 months later and is now 8 weeks pregnant naturally.
I have different issues, but I tend to latch onto anything that gives me hope, so maybe this might give you a bit of hope. good luck and babydust