Question for you ladies who have miscarried... - Infertility Message Board

JodyC · 04-09-2003, 11:40 AM

OK, you read all the time that it is not uncommon to spot when you are pg, but then when it happens... I am giving up some brown discharge, and it seems to be getting more and more frequent. And, it may be in my head, but I just don't feel like my uterus is growing anymore. I will know tomorrow from my next HCG test if everything is OK, but I am going nuts today. My RE just sent me home and told me to put my feet up. There really is nothing she can tell me right now until the test tomorrow. I can't stop worrying. Anybody have any thoughts - please!!!!!

Minouche · 04-09-2003, 12:00 PM

JodyC,

I know it´s hard...but try not to worry about it. It is common to spot when you´re pg.

when I m/c for the first time, I had brown spotting and after doc checked that my HCG levels were not doubling, I had to take cytotec to get rif of any pg tissues...

on my second m/c I had some brown spotting one day, and the next day I got my period...one thing that I noticed was that on this second day, my bbs were not sore anymore and my nipples were not hard anymore..

Hopefully, everything will be fine! GOOD LUCK!!

Minouche

KJinKy · 04-09-2003, 03:05 PM

JodyC, Try not to get dicouraged about this and think positively. It's probably nothing serious. I know how worried you must be though, I have been ttc since I was 18 yrs old and I will soon be 30. All my life even as a child I would tell my mom that when I grew up I was going to have 10 babies and she would laugh and tell me that I would change my mind when I got older. In the first grade the teacher had us write what we wanted to be when we grew up and I wrote that all I wanted was to be a mommy. And then when I got married at 17 and a year later decided to have a baby and couldn't get pregnant I was devistated. I felt like my whole life had ended. I went to DR's that told me I was to young to do anything to just wait and so I waited 2uears with no results. My ex was so cruel and told me that I wasn't a woman because I couldn't get pregnant and he would always say hurtful things to me. I went through a really bad time battling depression until I found a very good friend who helped me through the tough times. Then one day I realized, after 8 years, that I was to young to be treated this way and I left and got a divorce. But a year later met and married a wonderful understanding man that treats me with great respect and understands what I am going through.

I know I will be worried over every little thing if I ever do get pregnant. But keep your hopes up and if you need a buddy I am here.

Kelly

JodyC · 04-09-2003, 03:13 PM

Thanks for the responses, it means a lot to me. I go tomorrow for my beta, I will let everybody know how things go after the numbers.

lemondog · 04-09-2003, 03:48 PM

Jody, I am praying everything is okay. (((HUGS)))