I know you went to infertility seminar last week and have been waiting for a post from you. Did you find anything interesting for us 40+ year olds?? I am saying prayers for us and hoping that our time is coming soon.....any news on Dr. Grifo?? What a loser I am posting at 11:30 on a Fri. night. DH is sound asleep on couch- he has to work at 6:30 tomorrow. Friend of a friend had a tip that Bruce Springsteen (my all time fav) was going to do a surprise performance at the stone pony tonight. I was too tired.....and depressed.........I feel so old right now. Can't even get my sorry a-- out to a concert 30 minutes up the road. Turn me over- I am baked. Big loser!!!!!!!!!!!
1 more loser at 239am..LOL..But I had a good time all night! TREM...I betcha he showed up at stony pony tooo! Alls we can loook forward to is a 10.00 visit and lunch Nitey niteums as I go make my ham and swiss sammmich!
none of us are Losers !
( speaking of the L word has to drag my old carcass into bed at 10 :30 pm last night cause I was whipped ) .
here is what I learned about us old folk - the 38 + crowd at the infertility conference .
the medical DR's that spoke + gave lectures on ART, IUI, FSH all had alot of sobering statistics about the difficulties of conceiving and carring to term a healthy baby by any means . The odds / data got worse as you hit 40 . they explained the diference between chronological age + biological age of you ovaries + ovarian reserve using FSH as a marker . said it would be difficult to concieve but not impossible . Using doner eggs would give an older person a higher success rate .
there was this great 41 year old woman that raised her hand + told DR that she had high FSH and her RE told her it would never happen for her + she conceived on her own + gave birth to a healty girl .
The alternative medical community was also there .They seem to be more open minded + optimistic .
mostly accupuncturists specialing in infertility and homeopaths + holistic practitioners. They were not talking statistics + showing slides + graphs .
So . Yesterday I had my first treatment with a new infertility accupuncturist . Still trying to contact Dr Grifos group . My Current RE is willing to keep working with me + while I go thru accupuncture .
I will write more later . I am trying to be a BIG GIRL today and go to my best friends little sisters baby shower .May god and the board give me strength today . Later ladies and gents . happy Saturday