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Old 05-24-2003, 07:26 AM   #1
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I actually didn't ball my eyes out, I think I did that last night. I'm unsettled, but not incredibly as empty as I thought I would feel. Maybe I'm still holding out for tomorrow's blood test - or maybe I sorta knew that this wasn't it. I just feel like curling right back into bed.

DH called this morning and said, "It sounds like you've been crying - LISA, HAVE YOU BEEN CRYING?"
When I told him not today but last night because of these cramps, he got annoyed. Then he got angry when I told him I broke down and tested. And then we ended the conversation like that. So I can't help but think that he's upset we're not pregnant - yet again.

 
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Lisa,
I'm SO sorry it was a BFN.
You tested a bit early, and there is still that smidgeon of hope. OK, so you don't break out the wine until Monday, just in case. I'm still carrying that bit of hope for you too! Do you temp? Is it still high?

No doubt DH was a touch saddened by the news. He probably wants this as much as you do, as much as we all want it for you. I don't think he'll be angry for long. Yours sounds like such a great guy he's probably mostly angry, not at you for testing today, but at himself because he can't be there with you during this time. He knows it's the hardest time, and it's better for you both to go through this together.
This is the hardest part, and you need each other. But, since he's not around today, you know we're here.
Again, I'm so sorry.
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Oh Momma I am so sorry, But you know I was reading on the HPT I bought and it says that in studies the test only detected the hormone levels in 52% 3 days before AF and 69% 2days before AF and 86% 1 day before AF. So it may be wrong don't give up yet you still have one day. You may get that BFP and if not you can try again. Your HCG levels may not be strong enough for the HPT to detect yet. Keep praying and thinking pregnant thoughts until tomorrow. Let us know as soon as posible what the results are. I will be praying for you all day. Good luck Momma. I'm sure that DH isn't mad at you and if he's anything like my DH he can't stand to see or hear you cry.

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Hi Cathy -
Thanks for your support - I didn't start crying until I read your reply and I think that now it is starting to sink in that we're really not pregnant and that that "nausea" was made up in my head. I actually go in tomorrow for blood, so I'm really thinking that its not too soon - after all, we've had lots of girls on this board test before their blood and get + , but you are right, there is still that smidgeon of hope.

Thanks again

 
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Hi Kelly -
Thanks for that, but I really have NO hope right now that this is too soon. I hate to sound negative because this is just not me, but around this time of the month, negativity takes over.

It'll be okay though, just not right now.

Can't wait to hear your BFP news on Tuesday!!!!!

 
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