"WE GOT A BLEEDER DOC" - Infertility Message Board

kateisboo · 06-12-2003, 07:30 AM

No implantation bleeding, just an early visitor. The zit was adead give away - never get'em unless AF comes to stay. You know what, I am getting to the point where I don't care anymore...I am starting to SERIOUSLY think my dd is gonna be like me - an only child. (my mom did not want more) I feel like all signs point to "stop trying and get the f'in hint" No insurance appeal win to cover parts of IVF (yet - i'm still talking with the state ins. agency but hopes are low) THinking that if I do IVF i will be wasting time and OHHHHHH a whole lotta dough!

dknees · 06-12-2003, 07:38 AM

Oh no! Not you too

Damn, this sucks!

I think I'm going to have to wait until Aug. now to try again. The RE makes me take a month off between cycles, and I'm going to be in ND for work when they start the July cycle. I'm so sick of trying, getting my hopes up, then having them dashed, then waiting forever to start again. I'm thinking of looking into IVF during my "break." Maybe have a consult, see exactly how much it's going to cost me. That way I won't feel like I'm just spinning my wheels and wasting time.

Take care of yourself.

tazink · 06-12-2003, 09:15 AM

Sorry AF came - a zit IS always a dead give away. You would think after puberty God would give our poor skin a break

I hope you win your insurance appeal. I know you have put a lot of time and effort in to fighting this thing.

How old is your DD? Mine is 6.5 and I think she may be an only child (for me, she has a step brother). Her step brother is only with us for 4 wks in the summer b/c he is 2000 miles away

Taz

kateisboo · 06-12-2003, 10:52 AM

she is 4.5 and so loving...we call her "mother hen" she would be so great with a sibling. I didn't mind somuch being an only child when I was little but from teen years on...sucks (need to add that to my sucks list)

tazink · 06-12-2003, 11:21 AM

My dd is another mother hen - I think it is a girl thing. I was fortunate to have an older sister which sucked a lot growing up but now we are best friends. My dd is from a previous marriage though and I also question how fair it would be to have another child that gets to be with us all of the time (ie holidays and stuff) adn she would have to go to her retards every other one. I think that would be hard on her. It is catch 22 I guess. She is also adimit about ONLY having a sister. She says she already has a brother and 1 is enough

When we were talking about adopting she had tons of stipuations. 1. It had to be a girl, 2. It couldn't be older than her, 3. I couldn't be named Brittney (She still holds a grudge against me that she was not named after Brittney Spears

) 4. I couldn't give any of her "favorite" clothes to it when she out grew them, 5. I couldn't give her horse to it unless the one we bought for the new kid was nicer, and so on. She is a card and a half I tell ya.

TAZ