AF came today - Infertility Message Board

robband debbie · 10-22-2003, 06:53 PM

Hi everyone,
I haven't really posted before, but reading all of your postings have helped me out quite a bit. I guess now I have a reason to post. I was at the end of my 2ww. I was supossed to do a pg test tomorrow, but af started just now. I was so surprised! I think that I would have rathered taken the test and known, not to have been surprised like that. I am a little upset b/c we really don't have anymore money to pay for treatment, and I have always had serious female problems. I have been going through some rough treatment for the past years to hang on so I could have a baby.
Thank you all for listing, it doesn't seem like my husband cares much, he saw me crying and didn't even ask what was wrong. I really don't have any family, so this is really nice to be able to feel like I got to talk to someone about it.
Sincerely,
Deb

2boys'momma · 10-22-2003, 07:20 PM

(((Debbie)))
So sorry this was not your month. Your DH is probably grieving in his own way. You know how they are...they sometimes try to be stoic to be strong for us. Hang in there. We are all here for you.

jcrew33 · 10-23-2003, 03:02 PM

Hi Debbie I am sooo sorry to hear your sooo down and out we will be praying for you and God's willing everything will be great .. Just have patience and all will be well, I should know I am living in Europe now ( hubby is attending university Ph.d ) and I am sooo lonley

I miss my family and my friends back in Usa .. But this is life, but I can tell you I find things to do and try to learn the national language and keep busy .. So keep your chin up hon ((((( hugs ))))))

Hopefull2 · 10-23-2003, 04:41 PM

Debbie..please stay strong. It will work out in the end one way or another. My wife and I are going through our first IUI tomorrow. I'm praying it will be successful and keeping as positive as possible. Please don't ever feel like you're alone because you are definetly not. We ALL are here for you. I do agree that your DH may be grieving in his own way too. He may not want to bring it up because it tears him up inside too. Our arms are around you at all times though so keep your chin up.