hey violet! thanks for the reply

well, the only thing he really said was to like just have a few like around christmas or holidays LOL>>>>haha...i'm 27 and i'm not dead yet--thank goodness

but anyway, he didn't really specify why... he mentioned the whole sedated thing, but htat was about it...didn't really go into much further. i've had more than what he said lol. he basically said don't go downin a 6-pack...which i can't anymore anywya. but when i want to with friends...the heart rate thing just freaks me out. had two long island ice teas the other night--and i didn't feel any more "dizzy" or whatever. i did sleep really well though haha. i know you are missin that red wine!! i want to reward myself for taking this hand that's been dealt and if i want a dang drink---we dizzy folks are definitely the ones that deserve one--or more haha.