Re: 4 year old with ear infection since Thanksgiving HELP!!!!
GET ANOTHER DOCTOR.
Your son's health is more important at this point that your doctor's opinion, since your son is no better.
If your doctor will not provide a referral to a specialist, you have two options: 1) get a new physician, 2) call your insurance provider and tell them you want a second opinion and why.
By law, you can get a second opinion on any insurance coverage.
Why are you waiting?