Re: kidney stones
I don't follow: "they are supposed to be moving down in the er room"?
Without knowing where they are, how many, etc., I don't think anyone's going to be able to give you an idea of when they'll pass. They can take a couple days, or weeks to pass, it's highly variable.
Sorry, I know that isn't what you're looking for, but where they are in the ureter, for example figures into things. I have one stuck in the ureter, right before going into the bladder, and my Uro is saying to come back in two weeks if it hasn't passed, so they don't work according to any known schedule, only ranges of time.
I feel for you man, having multiple stones must be horrid, but you're in good company, lots of folks have the same situation. All I can say is keep pounding water and pain meds when you need them and if you're not on Flomax, ask your doctor - it's supposed to open things up and speed/ease the process a bit.
I went in 5 days ago to the ER with the initial pain and still haven't passed, so in that sense, we're both still in that limbo together.
Good luck, friend.