Cari, I forget did you have lasik or PRK? I had lasik and I used steroid drops for one week after my surgery, but then later I went back on them for several more weeks because my eyes were so dry and inflammed. The steriod drops help control and get rid of inflammation. They can raise your eye pressure if you are on them for too long so make sure that your doctor checks that every once in a while. Another thing that can help with inflammation is Restasis. It is a prescription drop that is supposed to get rid of inflammation and help you produce more tears. I'm on it now for my dry eyes. You might want to ask your doctor about it. I started using it about one month after my lasik surgery.
I hope that this helps. If you have any more questions please ask. It's normal to be scared and worried. Heck, I'm six months out of my surgery and I still have dry eyes and I still get stressed and worried about them. It does help to be informed!

Missy