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Old 03-01-2005, 10:12 AM   #1
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Is this a disorder?...

Hello, Im in search for some answers for my eight year old daughter. she has been struggling somewhat since the beginning of school, she is now in the third grade. In 2nd grade she was evaluated but passed all test offered with av. - above av. in some areas. except a little low in comprehnsion but was assured not to worry. -- She has problems "getting" her spelling words and remembering what she's read. like if she has written word 10 times each, she only looks at the word, writes what the letters are but don't learn the word or spelling. then if we do it orally. she learns the word (after much frustration!) but then fails the test. and its like the more we practice the more frustrated she gets and just blanks out. she tells me that when shes reading something from another paper or the board that when she looks back at her paper she only sees the board or other paper and can't think of what shes doing or suppose to do. and after reading a word/ paragraph she cant think of what to do or write. that she thinks of what to do after school or something she played the day before. We have gone over certian problems, say Multiplication tables over, over until were both in tears. and it just doesnt click. some she can remember, most she can't. shes not over active I could have her sit for an hour and she could care less. shes not very figity. but does have a hard time staying focused on what were doing. while doing homework, she will just blurt out hey, know what (such, such) did today. then we have to start all over with the project. akso she tells me when she reads that the words in a book it all goes together like a big letter or something? She has had her eyes tested and theyre fine... someone please help me out I feel like were drowning here. and her grades are like a yo-yo. what do I do? what could this be symptoms of ? all help is appreciated. I know there is something I can do but what? Do you think this is a disorder or what?

 
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Old 03-01-2005, 11:28 PM   #2
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Re: Is this a disorder?...

From you who know in depth about situations such as mine... someone give me some insight... what kind of psycologist and such ..
she is really getting frustrated at all this. I tried to ignore it hoping it was just a stage in life. but she has noticed herself and she cries wanting me to help her.
her teacher has talked with me on this but has no idea as to what steps to take.
and I dont know where to start?

 
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Re: Is this a disorder?...

I'm not a professional or anything but it sounds like your daughter is getting stressed out. If the teacher can't help you then the next step I would take is to talk her pediatrician. He/She can point in you in the right direction.

Maybe you just need to find a different approach and make learning fun for her. Have you tried buying her games that will help her with reading and spelling? She sounds as though she wants to learn but gets frustrated because she doesn't get it right away. Maybe you could give her some practice tests and let her do them at her own pace and if she doesn't get them all right then praise her for the ones she did get right. When you see she's getting frustrated let her go play for awhile then go back to it. My niece did better with her homework after she came home from school, had a snack and relaxed for awhile.

Does she get extra help in school with her reading and comprehension? I used to have trouble in that area also when I was in elementary school and was in special reading classes for awhile. As I got older I outgrew it. My niece also had trouble with Math when she was in the 3rd grade but in 4th grade she mastered the Multiplication tables with no problems. She said she understood it better the way the 4th grade teacher explained it.

Does she have any older siblings who might be able to explain it to her differently? Maybe there's a neighborhood teen who can help her.

My niece used to do the same thing your daughter does. We'd be sitting there doing reading or spelling and then she would have to tell me everything that happened at school or something else she thought was important. To me it wasn't but it was to her. I would listen to her and then we would get back to what we were doing.

My niece is now 17 and is an honor student. Your daughter is only 8 and it could be she just has a concentration problem and needs to learn how to concentrate. I think your pediatrician will be very helpful.

Please let me know how she makes out. If she starts resenting learning now she never like school. I feel so bad for her. I will be thinking about her.

Dianne

 
Old 03-06-2005, 06:28 PM   #4
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Re: Is this a disorder?...

thank you so very much Dianne for your reply. my daughter has been in the new FASTFORWORD computer program for the past 2 years and has already passed all the requiresments this year so far. I do know that when I finally turn things around for her in a way that makes sense she kinda gets it but she has such a hard time just on that one problem that shes brain fuzzed for the rest. I DO know that she learns best HANDS ON but its getting that teacher for her every year is hard to find!
In a way I wonder if there is a little something wrong with her but then ..... I also know that anything I try to teach her at home gardening, cooking, sewing, just little ""common sense things"" she picks up on and can do as well as anyone!
she doesnt go to pediatritian any more hasnt for several years only family doctor.. but I will mention this to them .... Im not sure how experienced he is in this particular field.
I HAVE TO GET SOME PEACE OF MIND ... SHE NEEDS HELP NOW WHILE SHE IS YOUNG SO SHE CAN ADVANCE IN LIFE!
THANKS AGAIN!

 
Old 03-15-2005, 05:32 PM   #5
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Re: Is this a disorder?...

All I can say is have her tested for a reading and writing disability my son has been diagnosed with these disabilities because he can read a sentance or paragraph and he can't tell you what it means or what it just said. And when you mention the problem with remembering the blackboard after looking down at the page sounds a lot like it. It has taken a lot of work to get my son tested but for her sake do it and if they come back and say she is okay then that is peace of mind for you. If not you need to start helping her soon. My son is in the 4th grade and at a lower level in reading then his second grade brother. But he is really smart at math and several things around home he can learn to take things apart and fix them with no problem. Look up reading disorders on the net.

 
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