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Originally posted by maxsam: I think you are right about the fluid build up. Sometimes his stomach is bigger than others.
I wish he would see a doctor but he won't. He thinks he is fine - or he's just in denial.
I imagine sooner or later this will develop into an emergency room situation and then it will get resolved. But I am also sure he will never stop drinking or smoking.
How long can people live with cirrohsis and not take care of it?
Do you know what phaze of cirrohsis he would be in with the ascites. He has had this belly for a couple of years now. He's in his fifties.
We have a home based business so that if anything happens to him I can take over fully - although it would be very hard to do all the work and I may lose some of our international buyers because they don't like to deal with women. So I would probably be able to stay relatively stable financially if anything should happen to him.
We are buying a new house that will be about 3 hours away from the rest of our family so I am kind of worried about handling things alone. I just wish he would stop the drinking altogether (he never gets drunk but does still drink about a 6 pack a day - he used to drink a lot more than that). One time he quit with the help of a psychiatrist but then he started the nono-alcholic beer (which still does have alcohol) and progressed back to the real stuff.
Well thanks for your reply and for letting me vent. Sometimes it is not the person who is sick who needs the most care. |
I'm glad I was able to be of some help! It's hard to tell what stage of liver disease he's in without seeing him. There are many different liver disease signs--over 20 different symptoms! The only way, really, to see these symptoms is to do a physical exam, liver enzyme profile and possibly a liver biopsy. One of the most dangerous problems with liver disease, other than liver failure itself is the presence of something called varices (especially the ones in the esophagus). Varices are basically very distended veins which appear in the esophagus and rectum (i.e. hemorrhoids). What can happen with these abnormal vessels is that they can bust and cause a HUGE bleed (often which is very disturbing because the patient will throw up blood until (s)he dies) which can result in death if not taken care of.
Take a look at your husband and see if you see any of the following:
reddish colour on the palms of his hands
the appearance of woman-like breasts
loss of hair on his body (such as chest hair, or armpit hair)
white nails
distended veins on his stomach
tiny red spots on his body (especially on his chest) which turn white if you press them
swollen ankles
complaints of hemorrhoids
There are more, but see if you can see any of these.