hey there N ... actually think i was replying to your thread ... welcome!
***BIG HUG*** said u need one.
i have my days ... the worst for me at the moment is the house is SO full
it was hubby, me & mum-in-law ... oh and 4 dogs, bonsai & fish etc... now there is another 2 humans and the house is small ... my mum in law & i are are really close and things were great ... hubby works for himself and i have been working from home helping him ... NOW mum-in-laws twin sister is staying here and we clash ... when my hormone levels raise i cannot stand her ... when i am 'normal' we get on really well ... but she drives me nuts ... she hasn't a clue on SLE and asked if my hubby 'caught his cutaneous lupus' from me ... pardon? i had a bit of fun and said it was genetic ... LOL ...
tried explaining SLE & DLE but some people don't get it ... we had a blow out before easter, she did pack her bags said she would be leaving but my husband ever the diplomat smoothed things out ... she asked me today if i wasn't bi-polar ... again pardon?
guess someone else needed a vent too ...
as for the family ... only the people really close to you can understand and it is just because they know you and can see what you are going thru ... let them love you ... forget the rest