Hi! I am also new to this board, but not new to lupus. I was dx'd many years ago also. I just wanted to share with you that I've exprienced HUGE infertility problems too. I believe the Lupus plays a part in it and so do my doctors. I've had a few ectopic pregnacies and more miscarriages than I care to remember.
I've never had a successful full term pregnancy. I do have two beautiful children through adoption and wouldn't change this fact for anything in the world
Best of Luck to you... I hope you find the answers you are looking for.