Yes, she is lucky you care! I would add to never stop asking her to do things with you -- if that is what you've done in the past. She may have to say no a lot more than yes, but never stop asking! It gets depressing when you realize that no one ever asks you to go anywhere anymore! Also, if you see she is fine during the day and then suddenly isn't, do what you can to help her with her load, if possible. But don't take over for her! Sometimes just having a rest can help us keep going! So, ask her if she'd like to go sit and rest and have a drink for a while, she'll likely come back feeling better! I am assuming that maybe you have a store together and must wait on people... try to be understanding about the unpredictibleness of this disease, but don't feel put upon either! She would not want it to get to that! IMHO If she is obviously too sick to be working maybe consider hiring someone temp to help out til she feels better? Just for a few days at a time? Most of all, ASK her what she needs? I agree with the above post about not wanting to talk alot when I feel bad... she is lucky to have you!!! Good luck adn God bless!