I have had lasik and I have relatives with lupus. I remember the health ?aire mentioned sjogrens. When i said something about that, the nurses nearly flipped out that I may have sjogrens when it is really my mother that does. Obviously from their reaction, sjogrens and lasik is a big NO-NO! I can see why. Anyway, it took me a few minutes to reassure them that I didn't have it.
You might want to call a different center as if you were scheduling an appointmant for evaluation and mention lupus. Maybe they'd give a reaction that would give you answers.
Also, do be careful. Some places honestly do approve people that they shouldn't. With a health history, maybe you should go as far as scheduling two or more evaluations with different centers.
Anyway, good luck. LASIK is wonderful when it works!