Hi, I can totally relate as I'm 30 and we want to start a family next year.
I've had Lyme for 8 years and have just started treatment on Doxy with a Doctor in CT. My Dr knows our plans for TTC, but he didn't seem to thrilled when I told him next year. I told him I'll give it a year on drugs and we'll go from there.
I have a lot of your symtoms. I'm not sure how far your parathesis goes. I get the terrible numbness and tinglying in one side one day, then it will move the other day. It drives me bonkers!
I have had almost every symptom on 'the list'. It sucks.
Welcome, this is a helpful community.