My husband had very similar to what your husband is
going through. My husband had a lymph node reach the
size of a baseball if not even alittle bigger. He also had on
and off fevers. The one difference is my hubbys was tender
but felt very hard and fixed. The doctors also tried first to
treat this with antibiotics. The cancer word was mentioned
a few times by the doctors. They even stuck a 19 gage
needle in his neck and both doctors said it was a solid
mass. He had a cat scan which found a nodule on his
upper lung. We were both afraid and knew his symptoms
were not looking so great. We went to meet with the
surgeon { my

} and he knew right away this was
not a solid mass at all. It was a cyst and he had a major
infection. The surgeon drained 3 containers of gunk. Very
gross but was good news. The surgeon said he was almost
certain the nodule was infection as well. He went back
yesterday and the surgeon said this was not cancer. It
had refilled again with puss he drained another 2 container
Also the nodule went down in size.

I hope all
turns out well for your hubby. Please keep us updated.
Haylee