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Old 09-01-2005, 09:50 PM   #1
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Reassurance needed!

Hi Ladies-
My mind set regarding perimenopause changes with the wind. I've been bothered with symptoms for a couple of years with a major increase in symptoms of anxiety and panic this past spring/summer.

After visiting my gynecologist and my internist, I've started back on low dose bc pills and a low dose of Zoloft. I've also started to see a psychologist on the advice of the internist, and I have to say that it is a good thing. Generally I've been feeling a lot better in the past month than I had been the previous month or two.

Here's where my mindset problem lies. The night sweats, skipped periods, shorter periods, and occasional hot flash are what I expected from perimenopause. The anxiety and panic attacks were not something I thought went along with peri. However, after reading everything on these boards and other sites, I now know that they are also symptoms of peri. However, many days I start to think that they're separate issues and that there is something else wrong with me. I begin to think that maybe I am "going crazy", and how can something like panic or anxiety have anything to do with hormones? My rational self tells me that there is nothing else wrong, but my irrational self tells me it's more than just peri.

Then, after a day or two of this kind of thinking, I go back to blaming it all on perimenopause, telling myself, "It's just the hormones".

Does anyone else vacillate like this? Why do I always feel like it is more than just perimenopause? And why do I find myself constantly dwelling on it and thinking about it?

Laurie

 
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Re: Reassurance needed!

Laurie, it's just your hormones driving you absolutely wacko. They do a number on us. Don't worry, it's perfectly naturale, and a part of peri.

 
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Re: Reassurance needed!

The anxiety was the worst symptom I had in peri. I dwelled on everything but mostly my health.

The adrenals go into a tailspin when our hormones are all over the place. This causes the "fight or flight" syndrome which originates in the adrenals. This feeling then causes the adrenal glands to go more out of balance and it becomes a vicious circle.

I have been on these boards for a couple of years and overall, anxiety is a very prominant symptom. If you think about it, the female hormones affect all the other hormones in our bodies. When they are going up and down and disappearing, it messes with all the other organs, glands and hormones in our bodies. Thus, anxiety.

Hang in there you belong with the rest of us. Someday, these hormones will level off and we will feel better.

 
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Re: Reassurance needed!

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Originally Posted by lorbis
Hi Ladies-
Does anyone else vacillate like this? Why do I always feel like it is more than just perimenopause? And why do I find myself constantly dwelling on it and thinking about it?

Laurie
Oh Laurie,

You are SO not alone! I just posted last night. After feeling good for a couple months, I am back to feeling lousy, and again, worrying that I am dying of something. I hate this feeling. I did take an attivan last night just to prove to myself that I was okay. It did calm me down and I felt fine after it kicked in. But today, I start with the same feelings of "gloom and doom".
At least we have these boards. I always feel better when I come here!!!!

 
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Re: Reassurance needed!

Laurie,
This morning I was thinking just the same thing but didn't know how to put it into words but you did it for me. It is so tough trying to get thru the day just once without thinking "why is this happening to me"? I wish there was something we could take that would take that one feeling away. My husband (who has been so wonderful throughout this process with me) got me out of the house yesterday and we went on a short road trip and I was telling him, it's like a bad trauma that's occured and afterwards you keep reliving it wondering when these feelings are going to leave or if you'll ever forget. He said, "it's like a death, you won't forget it but as you continue to live each day you will form new memories that will take over and once again he reassured me that this too shall pass but it will take time. My problem is I don't know where in menopause or peri menopause I am at. I had a partial hysterectomy 11 years ago so I can't judge where I'm at. But the ladies on these boards have told me that there is light at the end of this tunnel so I trust them and I trust God. Thank goodness for these boards and all the great ladies because we're all in this together.

Kathy

 
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