Kloet, I took several brands of low dose bcp before I found one that "somewhat" eliminated many of my perimenopausal symptoms. I would not say that I felt "normal" while taking bcp, but I was able to function a lot better.
Since going into peri my blood pressure became elevated so my dr. took me off the bcp. after about a year. I've found relief through various other meds. and vits. If you can tolerate bcp you might want to discuss trying a different brand with your dr. Believe me all brands of bcp are not alike. Also, compounded hormones might be an option that you can discuss with your doctor or a compounding pharmacist.