Hi..you sound like me..I am 45 and almost nuts!!!! I started this peri-menopause about 1 1/2 years ago..I never had irregular periods, no PMS, zi,p UNTIL this past year and half..Long story short..Christmas time was the worst, I had hot flashes , mostly at night for 6 weeks straight,and didn't have any again for about 6 months(weird) now they are back..So, this past Jan, doc put me on HRT(off now, I was on Premarin, all month and progestrone first 12 days of month, because I still get my period, I don't understand that)but went off, the progestrone made me really bad... INSIST on a FSH test, they'll say your to young, blah, blah..Mine was 65.6 the range for POST menopause is 23.0-116.3..Thats' what I don't understand...I still have my period, but it's like every 2 months now or when ever it feels like it..So, for the past 4-5 days, I'm getting wacky again, more anxiety, almost panic attack(good thing I have xanex) and I feel like I don't want to see any body besides my husband and my dog< which might not be a bad thing hehehe I think you need a FSH test and I'm not a doctor..BTW, I found out I had hypothyroidism about 9 months ago too..Weird how it all came around the same time..I was normal once ????? Write back if you want DEB