Hi There, you are not alone in this mad menapause thing.
My mother was 36, and I was 41, it is like going to hell and back.
I have just come through mine, and I am now 54, but I still get hot flushes, and a bit moody.
I have no interest in the sexual side any more, and for me that is the worst thing ever.
I was also told, that I had throyride trouble as well, and the two of them together was hell.
At the same time, I had ringing in the ears, and a bad neck, and headaches as well, and was so tired, I felt like I could not stand it at times.
So hang in there, you are not alone.
All the best