HI! I'm 41 yrs old and I havent started my period for 3 months!I get really ugly mood swings and hot flashes when I know my body is trying to start and I feel really terrible inside and out.I cramp really bad and I get depressed because I feel like I get up and do the same thing over and over- whats the point?I recently went to the dr and he took a blood test and said I wasnt menopausel and my hormones were normal. ?????any suggestions?and relief?