OK, lets give something a try. I'm uncut also, so I have a pretty good idea about your equipment and what to do. First, if your foreskin won't fully retract over the head of your penis, then you have a job to do. Sounds like you may not have a whole bunch of extra foreskin (that's OK!) You'll need to stretch the foreskin out some so that it will completely uncover the head of your penis. This will take some time but is not a problem. Take warm/hot showers or soaking baths (those are best) and begin to pull the foreskin down the shaft of your penis as far as it will go...DON'T tear it, just stretch as far as possible without causing pain. You can also go as far up (over and out) away from the head...once there gently open the "opening" more. Do this repeatedly for a few weeks, and maybe longer. You'll notice that it gets easier over time. You really need to do this for several reasons, you must keep the area under the foreskin clean at all times as it is a breeding ground for bacteria and infection. Also, when having sex it must be free to move completely over the head so it won't be damaged! The foreskin has NOTHING to do with the size of your penis. You sound like your development may be taking it's time...that's OK, often we aren't completely through with purberty until late teens or even early 20's....so give yourself a break. See how this goes and let me know what's happening with the whole foreskin thing. Also, please don't deny yourself the opportunity to be in a relationship that may become sexual, it's terribly unfair to deny yourself that out of insecurity about your body and penis etc. All of us are insecure at one time or another, especially when first getting started! Take it easy on yourself and know that each of us is different...we look different and our equipment looks different, never judge yourself on what you see or hear about others. Be yourself because that's what your partner will want! Keep in touch!
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