surfmore2

topic probably says it all already. I am a 41yr old male, great condition and very sexually active. In the last 20 years, I hardly go a week without sex. Sometimes daily or every other day. The problem is that during foreplay, the female usually start stroking my shaft up and down and regularly stop briefly to rub a finger over the tip as if looking for something slippery like seminal fluid. There is never any, even when I was younger and had a need to mastubate. I hear guys talk about precum, but I don't ever have that problem. I wish I did, because it makes me feel like I am lacking something. My fiancee is 27 and she recently wondered why nothing was coming (oozing?) out of the tip as she stroked it. I guess she is used to other 20 yr olds that drip with this stuff? Embarrasingly, I told her that I have never had that problem. My research online seem to suggest that cigarette smoking can contribute to this? I've smoked for over 20 yrs (always less than a pack a day). I've dated females of different age range and know that the younger ones easily get wet during foreplay and the older ones don't always and need external lube. I wonder if my case is similar? On the contrary, my fiancee gets very slippery wet just from kissing. By the time I reach down there she is dripping wet. Also, since becoming sexually active around age 18, I rarely do it back to back or like some guys would say they can go 8 and 9 rounds. Do they mean ejaculate 8 times or just take 8 short breaks and consider it end of round one?? I can usually go up to 40 minutes or longer if she wants, but after I ejaculate, I am through and don't care for it for a while (some hours). I am really worried and can't find much on the topic.