Questions!!! - Men's Health Message Board

Johnniee · 10-22-2002, 07:09 AM

Hi everyone,

I am 13 years old and I still cant ejaculate yet, and I feel really embarassed and maybe im not matured yet? And I also have something else worrying me, with my testicles on the right side, its very large but the other side its just normal, its been like this for AGES but doesnt seem to be any problem, maybe the other one is just slow growing or something?

Heelp appreicated!

Kiltee · 10-22-2002, 09:01 AM

Nothing to worry about here, I think.

Firstly, every guy's body develops at a different rate. Most guys begin by having wet dreams (ejaculating in their sleep after an exciting - but not necessarily sexual - dream) and then begin masturbating. If this is happening, then I would suggest that all the plumbing is working fine and you have nothing to worry about.

As for the second point, most males have a pair of testicles which differ in size. Normally the left one is bigger than the right one, and the difference in size between the two is also unique to each guy.

Hope you feel more reassured now!

mushroom1 · 10-22-2002, 05:04 PM

Hi Johnniee. When you say that you can't ***, that means nothing is coming out, but you have an orgasm?

Well, I don't think it's anything to worry about, either way, as 13 is still very young. Everyone matures on their own time table.

Johnniee · 10-22-2002, 11:41 PM

Yes thats right, thanks for the help you 2

Lance2 · 10-23-2002, 03:43 AM

Hey bud, welcome. Don't worry about not being able to *** yet, just keep masturbating and working at it...one day soon you'll have your first ejaculation and it'll be really cool. Each of us develops at a different rate and your body will let you know when its time. Perfectly normal for one testicle to be a bit larger than the other...nothing to worry about at all. Write back with other questions, I wish there had been something like this available when I was your age.