a few problems with my package. plz help - Men's Health Message Board

raph · 06-11-2003, 05:50 PM

First of all, with the past 3 or 4 girls I've been with, I haven't been able to finish; and I've gone for hours without finishing. Most of the times I was drinking, but I don't think thats it. Second, my penis is only 5 inches. I've had some complaints and now I'm pretty shy when I'm with a girl. Is there any way to really enlarge it without surgery? How much is surgery? thanx for the help

Magnetic · 06-12-2003, 08:49 AM

The drinking could be major part of it. Alcohol is a depressent and thus it depresses your physical responses. Lay off the booze and see what happens.

Regarding your size, you are a tad under average, but not by much. Maybe some of the ladies who have made comments have only been with larger guys, or they believe the myth that 6" to 7" is average. Maybe if you could simply finish in a reasonable amount of time, and if you used oral and manual techniques on them with good results, they would not really care about 5". Right now, if you go on and on, they may be getting tired and would simply for you to it. This may be the true source of their negative comments.

You can read comments in this forum that most ladies think that even 4" is quite adequate, if you have good techniques.

As for enlargement, the surgery is expensive, very risky and very often fails to provide good results. This is why so few doctors do it. The extra inch you might gain would probably not make all that much of a difference anyway. Some men claim the penile exercises (jelquing) help, but other than possibly giving a stronger erection with more stamina, few people report any significant increases in size.

I presume you are wearing condoms, and these do cut down on sensitivity. Can you mange to ejaculate by masturbation? If so, introduce this into your lovemaking. The natural skin condoms provide more sensititivity, so that might be worth trying, but these don't protect against viruses like HIV.

raph · 06-13-2003, 04:21 PM

thanx for the reply, but the comments were about the size (the comment was from someone whom I finished in a reasonable ammount of time). Once this got around, and believe me it did, it seemed like others I was with agreed... I wanted to ask my doctor this but was too embarassed: do any of those pills really work? Anyway thanx again for the reply. take care

jim1 · 06-13-2003, 05:06 PM

Hi Raph
First of all--skip the booze if you want really good sex, unless it's just a quickie. Good sex means really connecting, and that's not just with your equipment.

On size? What you have is what you have, so learn to use it right. No, pills do not work. There is no positive evidence anywhere from any reputable source.

When I was in college, I had 7 other roomies, all teammates. Want a shocker? The one with the smallest dick got the most "action." Why?? Not because of his size, that's for sure. But he was a clean, honest, generous guy. He gave himself. Small may be one thing, but better to have it downtown than in your heart or in your head.

Good luck man--and don't worry.