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Old 07-03-2003, 05:35 AM   #1
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I noticed something I thought was strange the other day. I was at the movies, one with a big theater. When the movie let out everyone hurried to the restrooms. I got in line for a urinal. I got my turn and while I was peeing I looked up and down the row or men peeing. There were no privacy deviders at the urinals and you could see everyone penis. This is not the strange part. I Also noticed a lot of other men looking at other men peeing too. Do straight men look at other men's penises? Are they curious or comparing? Couldn't have been that many gay men.

 
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Old 07-03-2003, 06:01 AM   #2
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I think many of us are curious and always wonder how we measure up. Just don't talk about it that much or make it so obvious that we are looking.

 
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Old 07-03-2003, 09:16 AM   #3
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That is definitely against the man code, do not look to the side at urinals. Eyes straight ahead or down, but never to the side. The locker room is a different story, you can sneak quick peeks to see how you measure up, but never at the urinal. I myself put up a barrier with my hands when at the urinal.

 
Old 07-03-2003, 09:48 AM   #4
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I don't look, but a lot of guys do. In fact, probably most guys sneak a peak at the urinals. Most aren't gay, but they are curious to see how they stack up. I've seen quite a few guys looking at my package while at the urinals. I don't really like that, but I've got nothing to be ashamed of, so it doesn't really matter. Nobody ever says anything, and if someone did (good or bad), that would be a problem. I much prefer urinals with dividers.

 
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Never an issue for me ... I'm "pee shy"; always use a stall ...

 
Old 07-03-2003, 05:09 PM   #6
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If I walk in and nobody is in there I go to the urinal all the way against the wall. If someone comes in I usually have to stop. I prefer a stall. I'm pee shy too.

 
Old 07-04-2003, 08:39 PM   #7
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I think that most of the time we all keep our eyes straight ahead and down. Sometimes, you do look to the side and see what the guy next to you has. I only do it sometimes and always feel like I invaded they guy's privacy when I do.

I can ususlly go at a wall urinal. Sometimes I am "pee shy". Especially when you are standing at the ones that are so close together. I hate the ones that when I shake mine, I feel like I am shaking the guy next to me also. Like a little space between me and him.

 
Old 07-05-2003, 08:21 AM   #8
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One time I was at a country fair and walked into the rest room. The urinal was basically a big bathtub and all the men were around it urinating into it facing each other. I definitely headed for the stall that time!

 
Old 07-05-2003, 03:24 PM   #9
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Hey we all basicly have the same equipment. To me its no big deal if a guy wants to seek a look which i have caught some have then fine i just continue takin my wizz. I dont look at anyother dudes unit.


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Old 07-06-2003, 03:46 PM   #10
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Well I dont think that this has anything to do with being gay, I think alot of guys look. Being gay is more than just looking to me, I for one sometimes look also, in the locker room its a different story also, we all look at each other in here, but not staring, that's different now. I think it mostly has to do more with how secure you are about yourself.

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Old 07-08-2003, 05:12 PM   #11
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I don't think you are gay. I myself will use a toilet stall if there are other men in the urinals. I guess that makes me urinal shy. But back to the question I do think it is natural to look.

 
Old 07-08-2003, 05:19 PM   #12
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I always use the stall as I hate it with a passion when men look in my direction when I urintate.

 
Old 07-09-2003, 09:37 AM   #13
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PEE SHY CURE!!!

I was pee shy for most of my life and then a friend gave me this piece of advice. DO THE MATH!

Specifically do the multiplication tables in your head while attempting to go. My case was severe so I chose the 3 X table (3x1 is 3, 3x2 is 6, etc.)

When you concentrate on the math you go without thinking about the process of going...Get IT??


 
Old 07-12-2003, 04:31 PM   #14
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I agree with the others in the fact that we measure up to others. We are a competative species and need to see if we at least add up or not, I have looked at other guys- muscles hairieness etc to see how I fit in or if I was the odd ball in a group etc.

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Old 07-16-2003, 12:26 PM   #15
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I totally think it's natural. other guys look at me and i look at other guys. im not gay or anything it just happens.

 
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