Help me please!
A few months ago, I underwent an operation for my penis to be circumcised as I had phimosis. Since, I've had sex over 10 times and each time, it has not been a pleasurable experience for me. Each time, I think "okay.. the more I use it, the less sensitive it will become" however that hasn't really been the case. I've decided to finally "put fingers to keyboard" as last night, I had sex with a girl I've been mad over for a very long time. It was actually in my car and the foreplay and everything leading up to it was great. However, the moment her hands went down my boxers, the feeling of pain was almost unbearable. The over sensitiveness is only around the head of my penis so as you can imagine, as soon as it went oral, I was in a serious amount of pain. So for 10 minutes, I suffered a lot and when she had finally decided we'd have sex, I was so relieved. However, it didnt get much better. Even though it sounded very much like she was having a good time, I certainly wasn't and although that sounds a little bit selfish, its not intended- the main thing I was worried about was showing that I wasnt having a good time, and if I wasnt in so much pain, I'd without doubt be able to perform better. Anyway, ever since the operation, I've not been even close to orgasm with a girl due to the excessive sensitive/pain feeling. This is really starting to now effect my confidence and esteem and I can't tell you how much it hurts for someone to enjoy sex as much as I do to not at all be motivated to have sex again. Thankyou very much for reading and hopefully I can seek some advice.