Re: please help very embarrassing!!
Sounds perfectly normal to me! This happens to alot of us, especially when we're first starting the sexual experiences. Our two heads are very connected...so any thoughts may interfere in our ability to perform. And unfortunately, once we don't perform up to expectations it makes the next attempt (s) equally as frustrating. Being nervous or worrying if he's going to get up and stay up can cause him not to get up! Here are a couple of tips....you know your penis works...it gets hard and ejaculates through masturbation...right? So that being true try not to think about past "issues" when attempting sex. Next time try not to even think about your penis....focus on your girl and giving her pleasure. If you lose your erection....do something really sexual and the two of you work together to get him going again....let her masturbate you some. One question....are you drinking before trying? Alcohol can have an impact on our erections, so be aware of that. But the main thing is to clear your head and not worry about it, that should go a long way in helping deal with this. Hope this helps, write back and let us know how you're doing!