hey hows it going im 16 years old and ive been sexualy active since 13 roughly 14. about two maybe three months ago i had un protected sex with a girl i met at a party the night prior to sex. for about three weeks before this sexual encounter my penis was not becoming fully erect. no pains or itchyness. just not getting fully erect.
so the sex didnt last very long due to my....frustrating condition. and to top it off it was unprotected sex. so i was kinda bummed out. but i kept pushing on ha.
its not long before she tells a friend of mine that we had sex and he tells a friend and that friend tells a friend so on and so forth. until most of my friends knew i had sex with her. now she was kind enough to not exploit my upsetting problem because she thought i couldnt become erect due to her level of atractivness.
about a few weeks later i got back together with my old girl friend of over a year and we were happy and were having unprotected sex. People started to inform me that the one night stand i had was dirty and hoped i wore a condom. so i began to worry that i caught something. even worst i feared for the condition of my gf. i became upset and rather scared and told her the entire truth after learning the one night stand may have been infected.
i never felt so bad in my life.
thats when she in turn told me she had unprotected sex with a man too. so both of us, understanding the danger at hand, continued to have both oral and normal sex.
during the next month i had these problems not all at once but seperately and none of which lasting for more then a week or so. the head of my penis became rather sesitive and red and swollen. now the day before this happened i hadd sex a few times during the weekend and had masturbated every day basicly. a week later i then developed the two to three (non itchy) zits on my head that went away and healed but left a shiny slightly darker scar. then when i pulled my foreskin all the back i saw very spaced out no where near clustered very very small red dots on the inside of my foreskin closer to my shaft, they didnt itch or hurt they were just there and i might add that they weren't raised, it was as if they were under the skin. i took a shower and a day later they were gone.
a month later i began feeling slight stinging/burning sensations with in the tip of my head and a slight itch. the burns seems a little worse after i *** or urinate. my gf has also the same problem. i thought it may be a uti because my gf has gotten them multiple times and recieved meds and it cleared up. but neither her or i have medical insurance.so i began taking antibiotecs daily about a week ago and it has slightly helped. im very worried about this and would love an explanation. im going to the clinic with in the next month or so but to put my pondering at ease would be nice. but the fact that both my girlfriend and i are very much caring for one and other and supportive helps. oh and she had what seems to be a rash of some sort on her butt on both cheeks the rash is about an inch in length and width. and consist of five or sixx very small purple dots on both cheeks . please help. thank you for reading this