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Old 12-18-2012, 08:25 AM   #1
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Angry Circumcision recovery

I am 67 years old and had sexual problems, Erectrile Dysfunction for 10 years. About 1 year ago I had never been circumcised and the foreskin on my pennis started closingfor some reason. I had sex or masturbated almost every day since I was about 11 years old at least one time and many times two to three times a day. In about 3 months the skin end closed so much that I could not push it back for masturbation or to clean myself during a shower. I then started needing sex at least two times a night and about four months ago I started needing sex three times a night. My wife died so that left me to masturbate to satisfy the overwhelming sex drive. I had no choice but masturbate because of the overwhelming need. I could not get satisfaction and my nerves got bad and my blood pressure went up. I needed to get all the load off and out of my body. I went to the doctor and the doctor diagnosed me with retrograde ejaculation. He said when i masterbate and ejaculate, the semem and fluids stays in my body and that is why I can't get relief when I masturbate.
i was like a wild animal because I could not get relief from being so excessively horny and not being able to ejaculate. I had pressure in the area behind my pelvis, pressure and swelling in my testicles and the pain radiated all the way to and through my but hold. I thought I might die if I couldn't get relief.
I could not pee or urinate freely because I was so horny all the time. My doctor recommended circumcision. Said it might resolve all of my problems so 5days ago I was circumcised. The worst part so far is not being able to have any kind of sexual activity. I was so concerned about this not being able to masturbate or any sex of any kind I asked several of trhe nurses and doctors. They told me the doctor would give me something to take care of this but they did not and I am left to suffer in agony from not being able to masturbate. They makd it sound like sex to a man is optional. He just chooses if he wants to or not. It is not or never has been a choice to me since I was about 11 years old. It is a force that I have no control over. I now wonder if other men can just choose if they want to have sex or masturbate like whether they want a snack or not. No compulsion for sex. I haven't seen anywhere where men have a compulsion and no one in medical field I talked to seem to indicate that men have a overwhelming compelling compulsion for sex. I am wondering if I am oversexed. I am going back for appointment in 10 days from now. Sure hope I can make it without hanging myself as I can't hardly stand doing without sex and sure can't masturbate as my pennis feels like it has been put on a raliroad track and the head hit with a stick bursting it. Going to ask the doctor if I am oversexed. Does any other men havethe a super strong over the top sex drive that they can't control? When will stitches come out and when will I be able to masturbate?

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Old 01-14-2013, 05:23 AM   #2
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Re: Circumcision recovery

Your doctor should have explained to you the circumcision procedure before performing the operation. The information should have included the down time for healing. Until you are well, you won't be able to masturbate or have sex. At 67 years of age, it is normal for men to have less of a sex drive. Doctor's have come to admit that some of us, men as well as women have a sex addiction and need to be seen by a sex therapist. There are many people suffering from an over active sex drive. I'm not as old as you are, but having a high sex drive myself growing up, it began to slow down as I've aged. I can still masturbate once a day, even twice if stimulated, but with age my sex drive has tapered off to a normal range. You should see a sex therapist concerning your problem. In the mean time, try and be patient and let your penise heal before any sexual activity.

 
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