Originally Posted by DarkChange
I also can't stand people in general.
DarkChange, this guy that you are talking about probably LOVES BEING AROUND OTHER PEOPLE.
The shortest route to becoming the person that you want to be is to start acting like the person that you want to be.
Whenever I have felt jealousy about what another person has I have complimented the person on those qualities and this somehow magically takes the jealousy away. I have no idea how it works but it does. I guess it gets you to interact with the person instead of stewing over you jealousy from a distance.
You cannot control what other people say about others. What you can control is if you are going to stick around to listen to it.
You describe yourself as hateful and tell us that your friends call you spoiled and selfish. Were you an only child or did your parents dote on you and expect nothing from you? A good way to get over being spoiled and selfish is to go out and do things for others.