when i was 6 my family went on a family outing to cousins of my mothers. the sons who was 19 was shaving and i caught sight of his nipple. every since then i am turned on by seeing bare chests and nipples and the outlines in teeshirts are good as well. i am a weirdo
Dont worry, there's nothing weird about liking the human form. And if you feel like you're gay, you probably aren't. I'm not gay, and don't get turned on when I see male nipples, or male chests. Hmmm, I suppose the shape of human shoulders and neck is a nice shape... (could be what turns you on)
If you're main concentration is on the nipples, it probably means that you like mens nipples, which doesn't always mean that you like men.
Have you tried asking yourself, "would I ever kiss a guy?". And "are male chests better than female chests?".
If you think that being gay is a bad thing, you're wrong. It's just different.
Martin Luther King Jr was different.
Albert Einstein was different.
If you think that you are gay, you shouldn't feel like a weirdo because you're different...You should create your own opinion for whether homosexuality is 'weird'; and if you like guys, you shouldn't feel like you have to like woman instead; just to do what all the other guys do.
I think that most UK citizens feel that homosexuality is acceptable. I suppose the only problem that you would have with yourself is if your religeon forbids it.
Last edited by Desmond1990; 11-06-2007 at 11:34 AM.
its not weird to like the shape of male nipples/chest. you need to stop thinking of it as weird and unwholesome. As long as you are and adult and they are an adult its ok. I'm BI so l like male chest as well.
You just have to realize that love is love. if you can love a man then that is a good thing, just like loving a female is a good thing. There is nothing unnatural about loving someone.
as to how many guys like other guys who knows. Lots and lots of married guys lead a double life that they hide from their families. so IMO its more common then people think.