is this incest - Mental Health Message Board

casandra1969 · 12-25-2002, 04:37 PM

Hi to all,
I have a situation in where my bother just told me that he has thoughts of having sex with me. My brother has told me this in an attempt to be truthful as to some of the things that are going on with him in his life. Apparently, he has always been sexually attracted to me and my big chest. Even as kids, as soon as i developed, he had an interest in me. He thinks that there is something wrong with him for him to think this way. We've never ever talked about this situation before, but when we were kids, we tried to experiment when I was 7 and he was 5 or so. I've alway's felt guilty for this as I was the older one and initiated these "experiments".
I was so scared when he told me. He was very honest as i was. I had 2 thoughts about him in the last 7 yrs or so, but pushed them away. we feel like we're not normal and that this is a product of the bad genetics mental issues that run in our family. An older cousin of ours came on to my brother a year or so ago. My brother is 30, I'm 33 and our girl cousin is 50.
I'm so confused by all of this..........I hope someone can answer or reply,
thanks so much
ps: I told my brother that I don't think of him sexually like that and would never act upon such. Even as I was sitting there, he told me that he wanted to grab my breasts......
i wouls so appreciate some thoughts from some of you here on the board.
thanks so much

[This message has been edited by bfl (edited 12-25-2002).]

Apollo · 12-25-2002, 06:31 PM

Um, very interesting. Don't worry about incest stuff. If you feel for him, don't hold them back. It's like people who have bisexual and homosexual feelings. They are not widely accepted, but do they care? Most don't, some hide it, and other's never act upon their feelings. It is your choice, you never know, you may not be alone.

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bfl · 12-25-2002, 08:35 PM

due to the questionining of the mental health issues in this post "we feel like we're not normal and that this is a product of the bad genetics mental issues that run in our family" this post is being transferred to the mental health board....