My girlfriend is miserable and I can't help her because I am too
I don't know what to do. My girlfriend takes the sadness from everyone she loves and internalizes it. Her father is a miserable person and she fears for him, and I think that's been transferred over to everyone else in her life. She's so afraid of other people's sadness that she doesn't think it's necessary to focus on her own happiness, and her own self improvement. I don't know what to tell her, because it seems like she really just doesn't know how to take care of herself.
Last edited by Goingtough; 04-07-2013 at 09:26 AM.