Well it happened - Miscarriage & Still Birth Message Board

rosycheeks · 02-21-2005, 06:06 AM

I posted a few days ago about slight cramping and a brownish discharge.Well, it lasted about a week, and then stopped last night. I finally breathed a sigh of relif. But when I woke up this morning, I have begun heavy bright red bleeding.

I lost it. I'm only 6 wks.

I am trying to get an appt with ob this am when they open. I know there are a whole lot of you who have had miscarriages. But I'm so worried this will happen again. It was my first pregnacy, I don't drink, smoke, or anything unhealthy. I was on prenatal vitamins for the past 4 months. I thought I was doing everything perfect. I just can't imagine what went wrong. How do you get over this? I just don't think i can do it. It hurts so bad.

Kistal · 02-21-2005, 06:18 AM

I know it is hard now but trust me it does get easier. A lot of people eved DH's and SO's dont really understand what a woman goes through after a loss like this. Just remember that your little one is in a better place than they could have ever been in this world, they are in heaven!

I lost a baby in December and it was very hard. My doctor told me that it is normal to have a miscarriage and that it is NOT your fault. He said that sometimes there is something wrong with the baby like as far as their genetic make up. Just trust me it will get better. Try and find comfort in the fact that you are not alone.

mommaboyz · 02-21-2005, 07:23 AM

Im so sorry you have to go through this. What a horriable thing for you. I hope you can get some peace and try again without any complications.

wyliemom · 02-21-2005, 07:56 AM

I know that you feel like your to blame. But dont, these things happen sometimes and there isnt an explanation. Ive had a miscarriage before and Im now preg with my third baby. SO you can rest assured that you will be able to have a baby too. Im sorry for your pain. I hope that you are ok and you can always talk to us here on the board.

tallgirl1982 · 02-21-2005, 10:20 AM

I am so sorry to hear that, 3 people i know have had miscarriages with their first pregnancy. And when they tried again they all had a healthy baby with no problems, 1 of them is having her 3rd soon! they all tried again very soon after it happened too.
I can only imagaine how much it hurts but time will heal that and you will have another chance and it will happen and you will be happy!