fear of another pregnancy... - Miscarriage & Still Birth Message Board

JellyB_3 · 02-28-2006, 07:37 AM

I think I'm pregnant again. It's too early to test, but I can just tell. I know we wanted this and planned it but I"m so scared I"ll lose this one too.
My M/C was a missed M/C at 12 weeks. the baby was 10 or 10.5. I'm so scared to go that far or even further and have to go through that greif all over again.
Is this normal?

The other thing is I feel like I don't belong on the TTC board because I have no problems concieving and I don't belong on the Pregnancy board, because I don't have the "innocence" they do...where can I go?

CRR0908 · 02-28-2006, 03:51 PM

Jelly B-I understand how you feel. I lost my first baby in Dec. 2005 and just 2 weeks ago lost my second. I am feeling very lost. I could tell you all the statistics regarding miscarriages but you know those. The only advice I can give you is to be upbeat and keep good thoughts. I know its easier said than done.

Keeping you in my prayers

teacherintexas · 02-28-2006, 06:22 PM

First of all, congratulations. I can understand the worry, and not wanting to go through the grief of losing another child as can far too many others here on this board. I think you are having normal feelings. It would be nice if there was a high risk pregnancy or pregnancy after loss board here on this site. Keep us updated!