Thanks for listening - Miscarriage & Still Birth Message Board

Sherri-Lynne · 12-11-2006, 12:00 AM

Well I was pregnant with #2 and I felt llike something was wrong the last week. Needless to say I had a miscarrige tonight. Well the doctors don't know 100% for sure yet because I havn't passed the sack, I gotta go for an ultra sound in the morning. I already had the babies name picked out and everything. I cried none stop in the hospital and now I just don't have any tears left. I really wanted to have another child but right now I feel like I could not go through this again. Maybe I will just have my DD. I only felt a little better when the doctor came in and told me that if I did indeed had a miscarrige it was for good becasue it meant that the was something wrong with the baby. So I would much rather that then something be wrong with my child. I will never know the sex of the baby (I was only 5 weeks) and that makes me really sad. Anyways I am off to bed and I just needed to vent a little. Thanks for listening. Sherri

eurokelly · 12-11-2006, 05:20 AM

Hi there, so sorry you are going through this. Just take your time, get plenty of rest and have the people that care about you look after you for a few days or so.

It is so sad when we lose much-wanted pregnancies, but it does get better in time. As far as I am concerned, I will never forget each loss, but I do feel strong enough to keep trying and I know lots of women feel the same. Don't put any pressure on yourself in these early days.

I hope having your DD helps you xx

take care xxx