2 days ago i went into hospital at about 4 in the morning with a ache in my stomach and an odd sharp pain and heavy fresh blood with clots i was soo scared because i was 18 weeks pregnant untill i went to the gynogaliest where he scaned the baby and felt around my belly and then done a spectrum or something where they look inside to see the cervix he told me everything was fine and that it was normal and if i was still bleeding to come back in the morning.
i woke up again at about 10 feeling amazingly happy that the baby was fine untill i went to the toilet where there was more bleedin so i woke my boyfriend and we went over to the hospital and a nurse done as scan and said there was no heart beat and even tried to listen for one and my heart sank! she told me that she'd get a doctor and just confirm what she thought and he did he tell me the baby had died at 16 weeks!
i couldnt believe it and i still dont! it hurts so much i actually feel my heart breaking more and more everyday and i've never felt soo alone even tho i have everyone suporting me i just dont know what to do with myself i had already started planning things and thinking bout my future and what pram or cot i was going to buy. i really didn't think this would happen after 12 weeks
My baby would of been born 2 november and i would of called her Ella Rose
I MISS HER SO MUCH
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Oh my goodness, I am so sorry to hear that sad news. I know about missed miscarriages, I have had 2 of them.....You have to let it all out, cry, scream, shout, stamp your feet, curl up in the fetal position and just cry....it hurts so much, i know.
It does get better though, you will never stop missing her, or loving her, but the pain will get better, as each day passes.
hello just to let you know that i went into hospital at 8 inthe morning after takin tables to soften my cervix 4 d&c at 10 my waters broke and i had contractions untill 11.30 when i was in surgry and had to deliever the baby i had happy to know that my baby girl had been born and not scraped out piece by piece i then woke up in a pool of blood and in alot of pain
now im just upset and lonely an empty i miss her soo much
I have just recently found out I was pregnant. I have had really sharp pains and some spotting. I have even felt like I was having a contraction.About to weeks ago it felt like something was about to come out of me but nothing did. I still have pains and more frequent spooting. Am I having a missed miscarriage? Anyone please help!
I am so sorry for your loss. My baby was due in December of 2009 and I am having a hard time. The pain when losing a baby is unimaginable. I do need someone to relate too. I want my baby back. Does that make sense?
I am so sorry for your loss. My baby was due in December of 2009 and I am having a hard time. The pain when losing a baby is unimaginable. I do need someone to relate too. I want my baby back. Does that make sense?
Really sorry to here that and it makes perfect sense i still miss my baby everyday and wish i cud hold her right now n wish everything cud be ok
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