Re: Will my girlfriend miscarry - please help !
There is more to the story but i had to remove it after there postings, ppl getting wrong impression, baby isnt mine and they said i was hoping she would miscarry. It was from a previous relationship. Thats not the case, i just would find it difficult to be with her during and so soon after pregnancy if it goes ahead thats all.
Thanks for comments, she has been fully checked. It's a damaged and opening internal cervix she has - concerning as its alreday like this at 9 weeks. They cannot stitch it, but im not sure yet if they will try later on in a month or so, i wouldnt think it will reclose naturally, and they say stitching (cerclage) isnt an option for her. She remains on bedrest and baby has heartbeat. I believe with incompetent cervix the mother passes a live fetus and typically about weeks 13-16 is when cervix changes - that is when i fear for the baby and her. She is strong though and i think prepared as best she can. Its extremely rare (less than 1 pcent chance to have a weak /dmaged cervix), and even more that it has been found to be open this early i believe. Comments/discussion are welcome as I dont want to say too much to her about it in case its too upsetting etc.