Originally Posted by Quin1823
I lost my son on May 28th at 21 weeks. I am so lost right now. I feel so alone. I am always uneasy and think that something bad is going to happen. I also think about my breathing all the time and I start to panic. This is the main thing i wish would go away. I have never had any of these issues until I lost my son. I can't seem to relax at all. I just found out that I am expecting again and i am so scared thatI wont be a good mom or that I wont love this baby.Have any of you ever gone through this?
I experienced two stillborns,both at 32 wks.gestation.I have gone through what you are going through.You think the world is going to end,you think that something will happen to the unborn baby,you get so worked up/worried that it causes the breathing problems.First off,how are you dealing with all of this?Have you gone to talk to a health professional?Talked to anyone besides your partner?It is scary,however,you now have another life to think about again.If you pray,continue doing so.Were the reason(s)for the stillborn medical related?If yes,get that checked out.Mine were medical related,and I went on to have two wonderful(albeit preemie)sons,both are now in their teens.Try to relax,go for walks,do whatever you have to do to ease you fears.You will love this new baby,you will be a good mom as well.You'are understandably scared,however,you need to start living again,in order to be able to love and be a good mom to the new baby...I did it,so can you,I know that you can...